Everyone has been bullied at one time or another, if they say they have not they just didn’t recognize what was taking place at the time. The RAND Corp did some research and it ends up that 17% of those bullied became bullies themselves – similar to the story of a kid who had his plastic shovel taken in the sandbox in the first grade matures and becomes a cop, who treats everyone bad. The technique is to not end up being a bully yourself, just because you were as soon as bullied. Given that bullying appears to be inherent in this carbon based bi-pedal types, it’s time for individuals to get over it, and handle it– move on because success is the best vengeance– not apply the exact same to others when it pertains to bullying.
Does anyone else here feel that this entire “Bullying BS” has been taken way too far, and overblown to the point of ridiculousness? I typically discover myself reading about “bullying” and thinking that individuals require to stop sniveling and realize the world is a hard place, so be strong internally, and let the bullies find their own death, simply due to the fact that what walks around happens, which seems to be typical wisdom.
I have actually listened to bullied victims and I hear what they are saying, but having had folks attempt all those things on me, it didn’t work due to the fact that I think in self. If others permit “collective efforts to demean, reject, daunt, embarrass, or lie about someone’s character, and/or damage physically/emotionally” then those victims require aid with self-confidence, not enforcement because as soon as you put enforcement on one bully, you now have precedence to lower the limit of “meaning of bullying” to the point that it’s utilized by wannabe victims to have the authority “Bully” anyone they do not like. You have mentioned this, and it occurs every day, it becomes “baiting” and is used to emasculate normal innate habits, when it is used wrong, and I would submit to you, that it is even worse than if we never permitted anyone to be a victim in the very first place or enforced bullies.
One bullied individual told me they never utilize the word “Victim” however in the existing society and existing popular meaning of the word “Bullying” everyone else does utilize the word victim. It “IS” part of the argument, whether you or I like it or not. Producing a society of ‘victims’ does not do anyone any great.
Lastly, we likewise have the right to “Free Speech” and if someone “believes” somebody else is an SOB for example, it is their right to explain their views. Political correctness on “bullying” would enjoy to silence complimentary speech, I say, “No, that would not be right either.”
We should be weary of labeling bullies and victims both. We must take care not to end up being the idea cops or attempt to limit totally free speech, always understanding that it’s almost impossible to “manage morality” mention: History. And, I for one, surely would not wish to begin. Please think about all this.