If you look around at families you understand, it is likely that the kids are all various, with different appearances and natures than their siblings and sis. Frequently you will observe a pattern according to their position in the family. The first-born might be more thoughtful and reserved, the middle kid rather different, whilst the youngest might be extravert, brave and adventurous.
At one time my husband decided he would run a riding stables and pony trekking centre. The foster kids had actually gone back to their mother who had then remarried so we just had 3 children once again. The children loved the fresh air and freedom however my youngest daughter then 4 was totally brave and if someone would sit her on any of the horses or ponies she would gladly ride throughout the field Thelwell style.
On another occasion, not being outshined by the older kids she climbed up scaffolding on the surrounding block of flats by swinging approximately the next railing, and climbed up and up, however couldn’t come down as her legs would not reach the rungs; she had to be promptly rescued by my husband. She would climb anywhere and everywhere entirely fearless. Whereas my older child was far more fearful of the horses and my child would not go near them and was much better on his bike. This shows how different kids can be.
Various dynamics within the household group can likewise affect the qualities of your children. For instance you might be more stringent with your very first child as you are settling into being a parent, whereas, later on you might be more relaxed. The existence of other children or whether you have more or less time to spend with them can make a difference too. Plus of course all have their own characteristics and there is the age-old concern of, nature or support. Your main job as a parent is to develop a kid’s own strengths and direct them towards being the best they can be; and to become delighted healthy grownups accountable for their own actions.
It would be a dull world if we were all the very same, imagine if we all believed the exact same and acted in the exact same way. We would all be looking for the same tasks. You will soon find out to understand your youngsters and know how they will respond. Welcome their differences and enjoy their various characters, assist them develop in their own method and become members of a varied society.